WHAT DO WOMEN REALLY WANT IN MEN

Get about a thousand women and ask them what they really want in men and you'll get series of answers but all trim down to things like ….tall, dark and handsome and he should be financially okay, caring, understanding, romantic and of course loving.

The reality is that she never gets this type of man and that's why she keeps changing men like dresses looking for Mr Right and when she realizes that age is not on her side, she jumps at any man that comes her way and before long, the marriage is over.

And on the other hand you see a woman that enjoys a successful and fulfilling relationship with her man who may not have all the attributes that she fantasizes about. But still, they are good.

The truth is that women don't even know what they want, most of them cannot even express it, they only respond to how men make them feel and that's what makes them WOMEN (the most emotional being ever).

Make her feel the way she wants to feel and you'll have her forever.- Cosmas Whyte

There are stories of a princess that eloped with a slave, society women dating middle class men, 45 year old women engaging men of 25, beauty queens marrying unattractive men and so many unexpected relationship anecdotes. Women generally believe in what they feel.

Here are the things she wants to feel:

• She wants to feel appreciated for the unique individual that she is. She wants to feel special, different from any other woman, and she wants to know that her man supports her in her endeavours.
• She wants to feel that deep intimate emotional connection. She wants to have that emotional intimacy with her man. It's a connection she shares only with him. 
• She wants to feel like a woman. She wants to feel beautiful, sexy, and feminine. She wants to enjoy all these things that come with being a woman.
• She needs hot passionate sex. She wants to be seduced, enticed, teased, and satisfied, over and over again. She wants to experience new things, in new ways, including fantasies and roles. It makes her feel desired, affirmed, and alive.

Imagine if she could meet a man who met all of her needs, a man who makes her feel appreciated, a man who evokes a deep powerful emotional connection with her, a man who makes her feel feminine, womanly and sexy, a man who gives her hot passionate sex. It's the kind of things women dream about.

Through her life experiences she begins to understand what she must have in a man. Some look for it in handsome men, some in popular men, and some in gentle men and some in rugged men. She keeps looking for it in all kind of men because she must have that feeling. So through a process of trial and error, including disappointment and despair, she begins to understand what she doesn't want in a man. She becomes selective- he's this he's that. And then she'll conclude that there is no perfect man. Of course there is no perfect woman as well, we are all trying our best, trying to maximize our strength and find coping strategies for our weaknesses.

This article is mainly for us fellas- you don't have to fit into all the attributes she fantasizes about in men, just treat her right, and make her FEEL the way she should.